SP Complete Guide
Both are playful and fun when they're completely expressed.
Masculine
Casual champion
Feminine
Casually playful
Here's the thing about manifesting as the different sexes. You are different and think different naturally because your field geometries are designed to be receptive to different things and be the supply for different things. If we play this silly game thinking that we can be either one just because we want to hold onto the illusion of control then we're going to continue to go through peak and dip cycles for eternity because we gave our authority to our mind over the form which is directly being driven by greater consciousness. Your greater consciousness communicates to you through your body. When you disown your inner authority that manifests through the thematic sensations in the form then you deny your ability to naturally manifest what you desire. You throw it away because your mind thinks it's greater than greater consciousness when the fact is it's completely powerless and has zero authority to determine anything that does or doesn't happen to you that's consistently satisfying.
When we get over the delusion of believing the mind has power is the moment we begin to connect with our actual supply of vitality. You cannot ever manifest satisfying experiences by living from the mind because the mind will be influenced by the world on a whim and you'll play tug of war with the sensations that drive you over accepting where your greater consciousness is driving you. That sensation you're denying which is the contrast your mind is playing games against trying to control the outcomes is the sensation leading you into satisfaction. It's the inner guidance system which tales all your best interests to heart which manifests through you top down and can know everything that's unfolding and which decisions to make that will lead you towards fulfilment. We simply have to increase awareness of ourselves, our true selves, through the body.
The mind receives the correct thoughts out of thematic sensations in the body because those sensations are what's metaphysically associated to the experience of what your imaginal senses present before your lesser conscious mind. Your greater mind feeds your lesser mind (the mind you think of yourself as) the correct thoughts through the thematic sensations your body experiences because the lesser mind can only interface with the lesser yin (the corporeal body) which is how thoughts naturally flow through your mind. You don't have to think, you just think because you are. Do you see now? You're not thinking to become you're thinking because you are and that's what comes through you naturally. It's who I am and what I do simply because I AM. This is exactly attempting to control the thoughts almost always ends up in unsatisfying outcomes with peak and dip cycles vs surrendering to the sensations of the form and allowing them to drive your consciousness.
You're just here to watch and learn and experience. You're not here to control that's the function of greater process who's integrated within the entirety of reality and can know everything about everything but that infinite intelligence cannot be accessed by you unless you give up control over the need to make things happen in a certain way and accept the natural striving you're being driven to experience. You may not see it from your limited mind perspective but it's always going to unfold that way if you accept it
Seeing yourself as the person who doesn't care and just intrinsically and casually has all the value they need to say whatever they want to anybody whenever they want is the person we want to become. The person who's unapologetic and
Manifesting an SP is very similar in nature to manifesting other things, though as we understand mastering the nature of your metaphysic is an essential component of this process. The real thing that's going to bring about the change in your reality is doing what NG says and having a "definite aim". This reminds me very simply of having goals, goal setting and moving into the experience of fulfilling those goals however your body drives you through that. The nature of what this is like to experience unfolds naturally as if you're just completing goals. It's experienced in such like this natural affinity for being that person, it's not the goal but the person who has the goal that's what's experienced. You'll naturally fall into this sensation of being the person by imagining its fulfilment because that's thematically representing your resonant elements of consciousness which nourish you. When you consciously bring to mind your end that is thematically reflective of what's nourishing then you're going to naturally derive sense of self out of that which will provide the right thoughts at the right time to manifest what is desired.
We either resist natural change or we flow with it.
The only technique that exists is fundamentally coming down to are you making correct decisions. The only thing we need to do is decide that we are the person who has the value to not compromise on our boundaries and how we’re authentically driven to express ourselves. So essentially when doing imaginal work you’re sinking into the experience of being the person you actually desire to be and being that person implies having a certain sense of value and vitality and worth that makes you have the sense of authority that drives you naturally to making the decisions which correspond to that sense of value. If you don’t sink into being the person who has enough value to make correct decisions that are holding your boundaries in place where you’re not compromising to fit in then you’re going to be unsatisfied and your divine coherency will diminish. Your manifesting value will decrease substantially because you’ll be influenced by others vs being the one who influences because you’re owning your unique signature which others respond to. If you’re the one who’s compromising for others then you cannot be nourished or satisfied and thus naturally you’re going to need and grasp to desires and use imagination to cope with the fact that you’re avoiding facing transformation to make the decisions which represent your authentic expression. That’s how this plays out, you manifest more top down vs bottom up from the perspective of divine consciousness. You’re embodied as more of your greater consciousness and allowing that sensation to drive your decisions and responses through the body. It’s natural and since you’re satisfied and nourished in valuing and owning your authentic expression as divine then you’re of course going to naturally be able to drop the thoughts and imaginal acts that represent your end with ease and casualness.
Effortless manifesting comes through you naturally. If you find yourself attaching to needing to use imagination to make things happen and cope with lack then it means you’re compromising on expressing who you really are and that authentic sense of self value and vitality. You’re only needing to simply bring this sense of self up and have that resonant sensation drive you and how you make decisions. It will likely require a certain degree of “effort” to begin with but once you’re building enough of a familiarity with this state and this feeling of being yourself then it’ll be baseline and natural.
When we go through dip cycles it’s almost always because we’re seeking comfort in the areas that are going to once again lead to compromise leading a gradual decline in sense of self which eventually causes a frustration dip where you realise the compromise as you’re forced to face the feelings. The thematics are incorrect and they come up for you to resolve but as that energy dissipates out of the dip cycle you’re going to invariably seek the comfort zones where it’s safe instead of continuing to move into the direction of fulfilling the compromise. This is the issue most people here face. They forget about the lacking sensations because they’re not prevalent in the awareness until things get bad again. Bringing those up and going through them even if there’s no bad circumstances is where we need to anchor into at baseline. This is where the real work is done. Consistently facing pressure that isn’t being forced upon you is the work because you’re at baseline moving into a state of self value and vitality. This is what every technique does. It’s bringing up within you what’s compromised and giving you an opportunity to transform it. Sinking into the end is sinking into a state of self value and that’s more often expressed as holding solid boundaries with others where you see compromise as degenerate. You never compromise for anyone ever.
You want to bring up all the broader reaching context that defines the thematic elements of being the person who has the SP and also what the person who has the SP would have anyway regardless of them being there or not. The point of this is to anchor your consciousness into the experience of these thematics which normally your environment wouldn't bring up and that the default sensory associations that come through your mind wouldn't provide contrast for to challenge the baseline sense of self. It's very very important to sink into thematics and sensory representations of those in a way that's challenging as going through that challenge and that contrast is what actually normalises it. There's no transformation without pressure. Ever. Under any circumstances. Pressure is required to transform consciousness which is a fundamental alchemical function that governs every phenomena imaginable within processing systems, such as your consciousness. To think that manifesting anyone in the world is possible simply by writing on paper that they are married to us or that we can imagine a conversation with someone telling them that they're happy we've been married to this person for X years. I need you to understand that sensory depth doesn't do anything or even the reality of experience of that scene on a sensory level without a change in the person who's experiencing that scene.
Here's an example to flesh out this point further. Say that two people are immersed into a fully virtual reality experience living the exact same scenario with their idealised dream SP being there with them. The VR experience is more real than reality and there's zero chance they'd realise they're in a VR experience. They immerse their consciousness fully into this experience so the senses are completely tricked into believing the reality of this experience. So the difference now is the people who experience that VR scenario with the SP. One person is highly insecure about themselves and feels like they don't deserve their SP or anything from them even though they desire to be with them. The other person is being themselves outside the VR experience and owning their intuitive impulses and drives to act in the world in the way they're authentically driven to show up. Who do you think will feel more natural and deserving and feel like the SP in the VR experience isn't on the pedestal but that the SP is lucky to have them? The person who at baseline is being themselves and knows on an almost unconscious level that they're more valuable than the SP which means they can naturally be themselves around the SP in the scenario. The person who's insecure will feel awkward and it will be unnatural to them, they're not genuinely feeling valued or worthy of this and it feels almost fake to them, and it brings up anxiety even though the SP is saying what they want. I experienced this personally so I know what that's like, it made me physically sick despite immersing myself deep into the reality of the experience of living from the end in a real sensory experience.
The only difference between someone who manifests their SP and someone who doesn't is that they're still not comfortable being themselves. They ignore intuitive impulse when it arises to make decisions they know will benefit them. They dismiss their drive into expressing themselves authentically and they compromise and fit in with others to try and gain favour from them because they're so lost in who they are that they believe all they can get is the scraps. They don't challenge themselves and continue to run back into the comfort zones and the safety nets when challenge comes up. They're weak and powerless and can't authentically feel valuable enough to decide on anything they desire in life to be theirs. They're easily wavering when contrast shows up against their desire and spiral into self doubt which is what they're use to doing when they're faced with challenge to own who they truly are. They continue to disown their value and throw it away for the bottom of the barrel that can be handed to them so they don't have to transform. They avoid going through the pressure of making the decisions they're constantly avoiding making that they want to make but still fear making because they feel they're going to lose something that's still not what they really want and because it's easy and comfortable and doesn't involve any degree of challenge they'll continue to accept last place because it's easy. They'll continue to forever play tug of war with themselves in moments when they're being driven to value themselves and give into the mental conditioning that comes up to say it's not worth the stress of going through that challenging scenario.
The person who forever thinks that manifesting methods will solve their problems are missing the point exactly because it's the very attitude of thinking that manifesting methods do anything for them that keeps them comfortable and safe and avoiding facing the true trials that will result in their transformation and the SP manifesting. There is no such thing as manifestation of someone more valuable than you without a "radical shift in attitude" as NG says. Transformation IS the shifting of a state at baseline but that involves through through pressure and being uncomfortable. That very process is what nobody wants to face and it's exactly what's causing them to manifest unsatisfying results like signs and limited partial results and all that stuff nobody wants to deal with. The person who manifests their SP knows that the desire is theirs not out of some magical belief that suddenly washes over them but that there's a degree of owning themselves that brings satisfaction and nourishment knowing without compromise that they can manifest anyone and anything they desire because that's who they are. They don't assume anything, the assumption is the assumption of being yourself and having faith in the vision of yourself over being your current self with the desire being yours.
If you're imagining being the weak and limited version of you now with the desire then all you'll ever manifest is partial results at best, or nothing at all and even opposite results which many people face too. The reason why once again is due to compromising on being themselves. People often say they don't know who they are under it all but I say that's nonsense they know who they are because they play tug of war in moments of making certain decisions which continue to come up. They get intuitive impulses to make decisions that reflects what they know is resonant but ignore them because it's easy to stay comfortable than to face pressure and go through with actually owning your valued self. This idea here is the only thing that separates the people in this world who are successful in manifesting from those who aren't. It has nothing whatsoever to do with techniques. The people and so called success stories people bring up to claim that the techniques work only work if those techniques can drive the person into pushing their limits and normalising that new elevated baseline. Without going through that pressure of pushing your limits into feeling more valued and worthy of more in a natural way then nothing can change.
We need to accept this fact so that we don't continue to waste time buying into the idea that a certain method or teaching will save you from suffering. Only your genuine discontent with your current circumstances will elevate you out of this mess. You must accept that above all else because it's the contrast you require to challenge your baseline of comfort and easy fall back to safety nets when things get tough. That uncomfortable feeling that you're avoiding is exactly what you need to go through in order to realise that you can have your desire because you deserve it. You transform that resistance by going through it instead of around it or trying to change it and make it into something else which makes you think you can bypass the responsibility of being yourself without compromise. That's the only commandment we have that we must own. Being yourself without compromise. You compromise for nobody. People around you compromise for you because you're so filled with value and vitality that they don't feel worthy of you.
Don't let that temporary sense of power trip you into thinking that you can magically manifest your SP just because you're feeling like this in the moment. You can sit in the same circumstances and feel this way and still manifest nothing differently if your responses to the world when under pressure don't change. Feeling that way in the moment when there's no challenge doesn't manifest anything in a reliable or consistent way because your baseline still hasn't changed. You're still folding under pressure when circumstances get real and bring out that part of you that still wants to run and hide from the pressure to face responsibility of being yourself and making the decisions you're holding back on this whole time. The person who manifests whatever they want don't care what anybody else thinks about them when they're being authentic, they just be themselves and know that the correct people will show up to reciprocate that. If you're weak and depleted and feel that nobody will want you if you do this and you buy into that every time an opportunity to transform comes up then you're throwing away your divine influence over reality in owning your true power and live as your own authority in life vs bending over for other people to walk on and be influenced at the slightest little thing that's uncomfortable.
The essence of what doing SATS every night actually does is that it normalises being the person you desire to be.
The feeling of comfortable comfortability you have now where you just automatically respond in the expected way that's easy is actually the same kind of automatic response you'll have when you're begin to normalise being yourself without compromise. You'll naturally find yourself making decisions that previously would've felt uncomfortable or challenging and the reason why is because you already went through that. The only reason you need to even go through that to begin with is because you disowned yourself at some point and handed authority over to others in your reality to make decisions for you, regardless of if that's your intellectual analysis of it or not that's the nature of this thematic. You're giving away your inner authority to make the decisions that are satisfying for you. In the moment the decisions may not be satisfying because it's putting you under pressure and yet
Having spent significant time observing other coaches who are outside the LOA circle who are successful I always find the common threads come up where they follow this basic idea. What would it feel like to be the person who has what you desire? That's what NG says. This method brings up contrast in our consciousness to drive us into actually making decisions from that place as the concepts that enter the mental environment and context are naturally providing a challenging perception to move into. NG says to "have a definite aim" to focus on. Goals are the same idea, it's a certain concept desired that's thematically going to raise your sense of self of being that person and when you go all the way through that then you've transformed. When you fail to have faith and go only part of the way through it then you're compromising and this will reflect in your experiences.
The essential component underlying any powerful manifesting method is quite simply that the method is designed to bring out of you the experience of going through the pressure of owning your true sense of self.
A good analogy of this is like setting a new PB when lifting or a time on a track. You're going to push yourself just a bit further and break your limits where you set a new normal for your ability. Manifestations the same with the sense of self. You build sense of self through going all the way through breaking limits and not holding back. NG uses the terms "satisfaction" and "relief" for a reason because that's what you experience when you're gone through the pressure of being yourself and owning the decision you're continuing to put off because of some conditioning you've accepted as more important than being yourself.
Every time you face a challenge and it causes you to waver in your sense of self then you've got work to be done to shore up those thematics being triggered. I want you to write down every thematic that reminds you of lack in your life no matter how big or small and rank them from 1-10 each. 10 being very bad and 1 being almost no issue.
Breaking patterns
The most reliable way to break patterns is to be as radical as you can. The further away you are from your current state of living in compromise and the less comfort zones you have available to fall back into which forces you to transform means you'll transform faster and to a deeper level than just touching the surface of your potential and calling it a day. Going all the way is satisfying and nourishing in the end, even if in the place that's unfolding in the moment it's a real challenge.