Aetheraeon Notebook 38

There is really no such thing as intro-extroverted people. They don't exist. It's just different states of the Shen, THOUGH different people can be efficient in different levels of their Shen, and NATURALLY be more intro/extroverted. I use to think I was introverted but I wasn't. I am dynamic. I can be both. I can be humorous or whatever when needed in social states, which before I'd like choke up and freeze and be messed up in ANY cold conversation. Let me assure you, if your Shen is activated you WILL be charismatic on demand. It's NOT HARD, you just need the heart activated. When the Shen is warmed by the kidney and is glowing then you'll be relatable, and you'll display confidence without trying. I can tell you. You will think different thoughts when a stimulus comes up to suggest the next line and you'll just have the thoughts feed into your mind. I had this this morning. I had the opportunity to generate a "warm" interaction through what I perceived as a clear open means of involving and it worked. I had the thought come into my mind and it just came out. It was quick. That's the heart doing its thing, PROVIDED it's warmed and the liver qi isn't locked up, meaning you're not repressing. It's very clear.

You don't need to prove any points to fools who don't deserve your time of the day or worth.

Shen function IS "social skill" PERIOD. Don't cope. Fact. If you're identifying as someone who's bad at social skills, it's because your relatability function is depleted. That's it. How do you get it working? You need to warm it. If it's cold then you're unable to relate. If it's warm then you'll be activated. If it's HOT and overactivated then you'll be manic and express a sort of "crazy" energy. Some like that though, so pick your poison.

I needed to learn when to involve my truth in spaces of conversation. in the early days I REALLY struggled with that dynamism. It was like I was thinking about how wrong everyone was ALL the time, and I still do when it comes up, but I don't ONLY think about that. If you're fixated on these things about Jewish supremacy and such stuff then you'll most likely justify being unable to socialize with others with how you identify with these things. In reality, your Shen is shut down and you can't relate, at least it's not on supply to come through you. You're locked into the liver qi stag and it'll make you only see the issues that someone has. Been there done that. yes it is functional to call someone an ignorant idiot to their face and watch them boil up and then you can laugh at them for bein such a dumb idiot goy and how you don't care, because you genuinely feel that way. If you're getting aggressive then you're obviously feeling the liver qi lock up and your Shen is sinking. You can't relate. Instead of having a wall there, recognize what that wall is and distance from that involvement until it becomes functional. You need to be able to engage in those discussions but without so much attachment to their agreeance, so get use to laughing at how stupid they are and be smug about it, at least if you have that state of resonance. If you don't and that's not your thing then don't bother, just be you. Learn to accept that most people are too stupid to see reality clearly, and you'll be way better off. That way you're not attached to the relatability function of the Shen as needing their approval of these facts to feel being seen.

Sociability is almost all the balance of the currents and the Shen. Learn to get familiar with that state. Show up and be real. I just know that I'm way more dynamic than I use to be. I still have work but I'm getting way closer to dynamic states of the Shen being on hand to pull out. I've been able to see more clearly about how these states work especially since I've explored them more here in recent pages. I learn bits through just writing this out you know.

I just know that more especially younger women than not would prefer K-pop boys than superman. Big Arnold from movies like predator (top pick by the way) are who most guys would look at as a pure example of masculine essence, he's close to what could be considered a weapon if you break down his character and display of power. Most women don't lust over him though. More women would lust over the K-pop star, simply because it's someone they perceive as more relatable and yet still hot enough to suggest they can be destroyed.

The weapon is still the ideal type of man for a functional world. Not all man SHOULD be weapons though, and I am not promoting the idea that everyone needs to be homogenous, in fact the variances are a sign of FUNCTIONAL diversity, within a race especially, since that can enable eugenic operations, but we will tend MORE towards that form of the weapon overall in a higher state society.

I believe a man that displays polarity of having part weapon part "pretty boy" or whatever to appease female gaze NATURALLY is the highest quality, since all aspects in the ratios are available and naturally expressed. Really, having that polarity is being superior, the dynamism, where both levels work.

I've got the top analysis on this subject so study and figure it out. Life in your ideal state and dwell there.

The face matters only to the extent that it implies relatability (sociability/status as an implication of glow and brightness) and that the dimorphism suggests an aligned psychological competence to be the things the quality of the qi suggests. You will see guys who get attraction who don't suggest glow, sociability, brightness, relatability, at least not as a core part, though you will find that their demeanor as is suggested, their body language, SOMETHING about them, EVEN IF they're built more, they'll SUGGEST the 'glow" and tell the story INDIRECTLY in OTHER WAYS. Right? It's all composition of currents and ratios and the weights that different people put on different traits. You MUST have a suggestion of sociability in your appearance to appear as a standout to women, HOWEVER that comes through, and you must suggest power and competence of "destroy me" to her. When you mix power with the glow then you've got peak ideal masculine vital current and they'll be MORE likely to be stimulated by it. This is an overall thing, not niche. Niche will always contrast this in more extreme ways but as an overall thing then that's what must be there, and then that niches out into different ratios and such.

This is NOT about "just have confidence bro" or whatever trash, it's functional supply to suggest sociability. Sociability I believe, without her knowing, suggests status, and status is really how well known someone is for various reasons. It's not just how respected you are, because a criminal can have status, but it's more or less the "impact" you have in a social sense. That's how I'd see status. It's your reputation and impact in various social groups and how known that impact is. So the Shen when activated will manifest qualities of such, provided that the spirit in that activated state is desiring those experiences, but the state in itself without the girl even knowing will suggest "status" in his face and all that.

The STATE manifests. Get that.

Your "game" comes from your state, your Shen, Zhi, Hun, Yi, Po. Anyone who "tries" to LEARN "game" will FAIL. Success in that level ALL comes from the currents. ALLLLL OF IT. So don't even bother if you're not actually nourished in your somatic reality because you WILL FAIL.

Yeah so it's almost all relatability. The "game" is the DISPLAY of your Shen. You're not combative. If you're combative you'll lose. There's no safety there. There's no relatability. Combative behavior MIGHT attract the ones who are lusty for wanting the destruction experience but that's about it.

I'm like pretty sure that I could pull a 8-9 or even 10 if I'd get lucky. I need to test my skills and experience this more to tap into how the currents move as I'm interacting. I literally feel like my Shen is like so open right now it's wild stuff.

All the fools can get schooled, again, as usual. RS reigns supreme yee suckers.

I think I'd probably fold in some cases because I KNOW my currents aren't at top tier but I've got a decent shot. Need more anchor. The heart is very activated but I need more kidney and liver anchor to calm those currents from warping my perceptions when under high pressure. This is what you need to factor in and consider.

All of this is to tell her story she wants to experience. You tell her story you win.

I still think that state matters more than looks once you're over an average level and have decent mix of male-female qualities and aren't just lacking in any way. I can 100% agree with the comments the girls who liked me gave me, in fact, as crazy as it sounds, my features that are more feminine are the better ones, which makes sense. You DO NOT need to be full masculine looking. I don't have a solid jaw, so in effect, it's very difficult for me to be properly masculine without making up for it in other ways, so literally just carry the state you want to carry no matter your ratios.

I can 100% bet all of the incels in this world are all depleted on Shen. ALL of them, without exception. This is what makes or breaks attraction at the end of the day, because unless you can suggest the fulfilment of the female story then you can't win.

Wow apparently the 16-21 year old girls out there actually expect physical violence in bed. 47% expect it to happen. That hit me off guard. I mean I did say that these younger types often will have a generally "safer" outlook on it through their preference, based on what I've seen, but underlying that there's still the essence of "destroy me" built in which I said is ALWAYS underlying sexual attraction and that deep visceral attraction on the masculine level. Mine does, she was 20 the first time, and literally wanted me to physically "destroy" her like in actual painful ways. I probably shouldn't reveal too much about that you can imagine what that might involve. 47% though, that actually, no that makes sense. Listen up. If there's a decently equal mix of yin-yang, then this can connect to the theory. So if masculine attraction of the "bad" form where domination is expected to a visceral level. If that's ACTUALLY pleasurable for them and not just an expectation from the mental level, then yeah I can see how that makes sense. 42% of the data set on top of the 47% say they ENJOY it, so about half of them are already involved in that. I guess mine is one of them. She's got other stuff too but I won't go into that here publicly, I've already said enough.

The stats man they talk. They want "safe" at face value and then want to be destroyed behind the scenes. Welcome to the strange world of women's preferences for men. Fun stuff huh. It's very likely that if you're going for one 16-21, which again is my ideal range, then you'd have the similar level of stats probably, though it can vary depending on where you are in the world. Here I bet it's probably a little lower, but probably similar.

I also am 10000000% sure that Shen activation leads to a more attractive face.

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